As Muslims it is important to get married, as it completing half of ones deen (faith). In today’s world we are overwhelmed with our working lives we focus hard in full-filling our ambitions to succeed in our careers without realisation of other personnel yet important issues as finding companionship to settle down when the timing is right.

Single Muslims are moving away from the family arranged marriage setup they find this old fashioned, it’s a setup where people can be beautified or manufactured to like one another within a small time frame with no real understanding of suitability within a closed environment of family pressures.

Like it or not! Times are changing young single professionals think freely, they want more out of life. I believe it is not about Mr or Miss Perfect! It is about suitability, being able to establish if one is able to make a good decent partner with qualities to sustain a healthy long lasting relationship. So many singles are conditioned with the thought of perfection and many keep looking with little access to social networking, some have been single for a long time.

Seeking a partner should be judged upon ones character more then looks or wealth, of course attraction is important but in the ideal world it’s the whole package that counts importantly one having morals and Islam in there heart. Allah mentions in the holy Quran ‘search for deen in a partner’ we are not talking about extremism but more about a balanced individual who will respect you in a civilised human way and sustain a healthy long lasting marriage fulfilling there duties as a god fearing individual. 

Honesty, reasoning, compromise, forgiveness and trust are important elements within an individual one must be honest and open right from the beginning. Muslim women have moved on they are educated independent and mentally focused they want more out of a male partner. Muslim men need to accept times are changing and professional women seek men who are not ‘mummies boys’ ie they can make decisions and see things through importantly not to fear a career orientated women, remember its about love and not competition.    

Marriages are made in heaven, its destiny but we still need to make efforts as no one will come knocking on your door for a rishta unless you put yourself out.

I believe one should establish all avenues in there search from family networking to attending our single networking events which are approved by the Muslim family communities.

I know it’s not easy, like you I am too in the same position as you searching for companionship. I have spoken to many singles across the country from their feedback we need something positive which will help individuals find a suitable partner in a relaxed and safe environment. 

My organisation will be fair especially towards the ladies as the girls always complain far few quality men, unequal numbers, big age gaps, and boring event introductions. There are many professional single men searching for partners we will be targeting these guys throughout industry and country, bringing them to our events throughout the year. 

Our events held at trendy fashionable places all events are enjoyable, fun and safe. I hope you all do have a pleasant time attending let it be coming alone or with other singles. The idea is ‘matchmaking’ for the single Muslims and that is exactly what we do.